domingo, enero 10, 2016

4 Tips To Be A More Comprehensive Person

We are human beings and often it's difficult for us to control our impulses and not yell or react badly to another person's actions, whether it's family, friends or a stranger. Today I bring you tips to accept this and so the next time everything gets stressful, you can remember them and calm down!

Somos seres humanos y muchas veces nos cuesta controlar nuestros impulsos y no reaccionar mal frente a otra persona, ya sea familia, amigos o un desconocido. Hoy les traigo tips para aceptar eso y la próxima vez todo se vuelva estresante, leas esto y te tranquilice!

  • Accept human nature: Humans make mistakes. People aren't always nice. They say the wrong thing, they get distracted, they forget. You have to remember: all of the problems that you have in your life right now, all of your pain, they have that too.
  • Try to find sympathy or empathy for them: This are great feelings to have towards another person and they're going to make you put on their feets and understand why they do certain things.
  • Put yourself in their place: Think about what people do and then think about what you'd do in their position. Remove as much of your personal bias as possible and remember that they might not be as emotionally developed or as sensitive as you are.
  • Respect that there are lots of valid choices: People are all very different: that's what makes life interesting. Every situation is different. Just because someone doesn't make the choice you would make doesn't make them wrong.

  • Acepta la naturaleza humana: Los humanos se equivocan. La gente no es siempre simpática. Dicen las cosas equivocadas, se distraen, se olvidan. Tenes que acordarte: todos los problemas que vos tenes en tu vida ahora, todo tu dolor, ellos también lo tienen.
  • Trata de encontrar simpatía o empatia por ellos: Los dos son muy buenos sentimientos para tener con otra persona y van a hacer que puedas ponerte en su situación y entenderlos mejor.
  • Ponete en su lugar: Pensa en lo que la gente hace y después pensa en lo que vos harías en su lugar. Deja todos los prejuicios personales que tengas de lado y acordate que tal vez no estén desarrollados emocionalmente como vos o sean sensibles como vos.
  • Respeta que hay muchas opciones validas: la gente es muy diferente, eso es lo que hace la vida interesante. Toda situación es diferente. Solo porque uno no hace la decisión que vos harías no significa que la decisión este mal. 

36 comentarios

  1. Great tips! Thank you for sharing, Paula!!
    Love from {a lifestyle, fashion, beauty, and food blog}

  2. Que todos deberiamos tener esto presente siempre. Me encantan tus posts Pau! Besos.
    Obsessed Fashion Blog

  3. such an inspiring post idea! this is something important to keep in mind with all our other new year resolutions.


  4. Tendria que poner en practica el punto cuatro mas a menudo jaja, me encanta el blog!

  5. This is really inspiring. Sometimes it is really easy to get caught up in the chaos of life; this post definitely made me stop and think for a bit. LOVE IT

    Brittny |

  6. Love this! Thank you so much for sharing!

  7. You are a beautiful soul for posting this. Could not agree with you more!

    Enclothed Cognition

  8. Love this! Is incredible how many times we forget the importance of being comprehensive

    1. I couldn't agree more! It's sad we don't remember this a lot of times

  9. Great tips! I think it is always really important as you said to remember that we are all different and that to make mistakes is human!

    Rae | Love from Berlin

  10. True. Loved the tips.

  11. Un post genial guapa!
    Feliz día,

  12. Great tips! xx

  13. Great tips! People often take offense easily. It's important to be patient and think things through before reacting.

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